It’s true, I am brutally honest. People say there is a fine line between being honest and being rude. I say it depends on who you are talking to. Maybe 40% of the people I know I could never be honest with because their expectations for reality are really low. So if I do ever so share my honest opinion I am usually shunned. But more in like a secret way, that everyone else knows but me. That’s what I call fake but that’s another blog topic. Continuing on!
Everyone else will ask me to be honest with them and I am. I will wipe the glare from your eyes and show you the truth. The friends I do have left appreciate my honesty and value my opinion. You want to know if you look fat in those jeans, yes. You want to know if your bra is giving you back fat, yes. You want to know if you look alright tonight, no. In the great debate of Herve Leger bandage dresses, do I agree that they are out of style, yes. Does that stop women from wearing them, no. But someone women just like to look tacky when they go out.
Recently, I was in conversation with someone who went out over the weekend and saw a group of girls in their late twenties/early thirties... ALL wearing bandage dresses. These girls are old enough to know when these dresses became a huge “no” in the fashion world. The only time they are a yes is when you have paired them with another piece of clothing and major accessories. Worn alone, boring. You are a boring person. I am sure the women who wear these dresses still, most likely wear the same hairstyle over and over again. Boring.
Seriously, go back and look at your friends Vegas pics and you will see all the girls in the club wearing these dresses. Where has the creativity gone! Why can’t you just let this style die!
I’ve owned 2 of these dress and maybe only wore them a couple times when they were in style. There was nothing exciting about them. They were easy, simple and very little thought ever went into planning that outfit. No fun. Don’t be that girl that shows up to the club and all your friends are in the same style dress. Lame-O was his name-O.
Oh and for the women who need reminders for the goods they carry; if you have a big ass and you just want to show it off, the bandage dress is probably perfect for you, while dancing in a rap video licking sugar sticks from ones hand. But if you have a fat ass, we already know about it, we know that ass is fat. Same goes for tiggo bitties. We already know your shit is huge. What if the roles were reversed and we saw men wanting to show off their goods? I am not ready to see men wondering around with really tight pants showing their bulge. Ew (Jimmy Fallon/Sara voice from Ew show). I mean there are men who already do that, but we all usually think ew already.
If you can't handle the truth then don't ask me.
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Tuesday, February 25, 2014
Sunday, May 19, 2013
A Life Worth Fighting For
This morning I read a terrible post on Facebook by my younger brother. He mentioned he had the worst day and that he was called "fag" several times at work by customers. The first emotion that hit me was anger, then sadness. I think its natural to want to be there and defend someone you love when they are in those types if situations. And when you can't, it hurts.
If you know me and my family well, you know my younger brother is gay; my parents are very religious and that we all love each other. When my brother told us he was gay, it was a surprise but wasn't at the same time. We accepted him, there wasn't a question or doubt. We love him, our Lord gave us this person; he brought him into our lives.
Its so true when you hear the phrase "born this way". This is the solid reason any homosexual person can give you. As children no one kneels by there bedside and prays to be a homosexual. No one prays to be made this way, you are just born that way. You are. Its in your blood, bones and soul. No one chooses to be this way. And the way people, the world react is just appalling to me. The world is so focused on gay marriage and how they can raise children. Have we lost all sight?
What do we call all the bad mothers, fathers, sex traffickers, molesters, kidnappers, murderers out there? They weren't born that way, they chose to be that way. They allowed themselves to be taken by the dark side, and they had a choice. I know there are mentally ill people out there that commit terrible crimes, but that is not the group I am talking about. I am talking about the women who know they shouldn't have children and do. The men who chose to get a women pregnant and know they will not stick around. The groups out there that think its okay to enslave a child into sex trafficking. A person who feels touching a child in sexual ways is okay. A person who kidnaps someone to remove them from society and think there is no wrong in that. The people who don't have the right to end someone's life. What about those people? WHY ARE WE NOT FOCUSING ON THESE PEOPLE?????? WHY ARE WE FOCUSING ON GAY MEN AND WOMEN WHO WANT TO LIVE PEACEFUL LIFE'S????
Sure those people make headlines, sure you talk about it amongst your peers. But then the topic fades until the next terrible thing happens. But giving gay men and women any rights is milk in everyone's coffee. I can't remember the last time I read, heard or saw something in the news about a soulless act committed by a gay person. I just can't. Can you? Oh wait, yes I can. I remember it was only a few months ago that gay men and women wanted to marry because they loved each other and wanted to dedicate their lives to one another and it did make headline news. In fact, people were so outraged that they started rioting... I guess loving someone, really is a crime.
I don't give a fuck who you are, I don't care where you came from, I don't care what race you are - but if you think you have been giving a life that only our Lord leads to be able to call ANYONE ANY kind of hurtful name; you truly have been giving a life that only the devil leads.
You are given one life, one heart, one soul. After that, your actions will guide you to where you belong once you've passed.
Remember that the gay man and women who live amongst us are symbols of love and peace. And to that, this is all they seek.
Our race is so corrupted that the real focus has been jaded and the real problems are becoming okay in our society. I am a daughter, a mother, a friend, a sister and this is what I see through my eyes. My own opinion. My own words.
Life will never makes sense, don't kill yourself trying to make sense of it.
A prayer for those who were born the way you are:
DEAR LORD,
I PRAY FOR STRENGTH,
AS OTHERS ARE AGAINST ME.
DIFFERENT I AM,
AS OTHERS CAUSE PAIN.
I AM GAY,
MY BELIEFS IN YOU,
WILL NEVER STRAY.
I PRAY FOR OUR WORLD,
AS OTHERS ARE AGAINST YOU.
DIFFERENT YOU ARE NOT,
AS OTHERS SEEM TO BE.
I AM GAY,
MY BELIEFS IN YOU,
WILL NEVER STRAY.
If you know me and my family well, you know my younger brother is gay; my parents are very religious and that we all love each other. When my brother told us he was gay, it was a surprise but wasn't at the same time. We accepted him, there wasn't a question or doubt. We love him, our Lord gave us this person; he brought him into our lives.
Its so true when you hear the phrase "born this way". This is the solid reason any homosexual person can give you. As children no one kneels by there bedside and prays to be a homosexual. No one prays to be made this way, you are just born that way. You are. Its in your blood, bones and soul. No one chooses to be this way. And the way people, the world react is just appalling to me. The world is so focused on gay marriage and how they can raise children. Have we lost all sight?
What do we call all the bad mothers, fathers, sex traffickers, molesters, kidnappers, murderers out there? They weren't born that way, they chose to be that way. They allowed themselves to be taken by the dark side, and they had a choice. I know there are mentally ill people out there that commit terrible crimes, but that is not the group I am talking about. I am talking about the women who know they shouldn't have children and do. The men who chose to get a women pregnant and know they will not stick around. The groups out there that think its okay to enslave a child into sex trafficking. A person who feels touching a child in sexual ways is okay. A person who kidnaps someone to remove them from society and think there is no wrong in that. The people who don't have the right to end someone's life. What about those people? WHY ARE WE NOT FOCUSING ON THESE PEOPLE?????? WHY ARE WE FOCUSING ON GAY MEN AND WOMEN WHO WANT TO LIVE PEACEFUL LIFE'S????
Sure those people make headlines, sure you talk about it amongst your peers. But then the topic fades until the next terrible thing happens. But giving gay men and women any rights is milk in everyone's coffee. I can't remember the last time I read, heard or saw something in the news about a soulless act committed by a gay person. I just can't. Can you? Oh wait, yes I can. I remember it was only a few months ago that gay men and women wanted to marry because they loved each other and wanted to dedicate their lives to one another and it did make headline news. In fact, people were so outraged that they started rioting... I guess loving someone, really is a crime.
I don't give a fuck who you are, I don't care where you came from, I don't care what race you are - but if you think you have been giving a life that only our Lord leads to be able to call ANYONE ANY kind of hurtful name; you truly have been giving a life that only the devil leads.
You are given one life, one heart, one soul. After that, your actions will guide you to where you belong once you've passed.
Remember that the gay man and women who live amongst us are symbols of love and peace. And to that, this is all they seek.
Our race is so corrupted that the real focus has been jaded and the real problems are becoming okay in our society. I am a daughter, a mother, a friend, a sister and this is what I see through my eyes. My own opinion. My own words.
Life will never makes sense, don't kill yourself trying to make sense of it.
A prayer for those who were born the way you are:
DEAR LORD,
I PRAY FOR STRENGTH,
AS OTHERS ARE AGAINST ME.
DIFFERENT I AM,
AS OTHERS CAUSE PAIN.
I AM GAY,
MY BELIEFS IN YOU,
WILL NEVER STRAY.
I PRAY FOR OUR WORLD,
AS OTHERS ARE AGAINST YOU.
DIFFERENT YOU ARE NOT,
AS OTHERS SEEM TO BE.
I AM GAY,
MY BELIEFS IN YOU,
WILL NEVER STRAY.
Sunday, April 10, 2011
Kissing Chances and Sleeping with Risk
You take some and give some from each relationship you devote yourself too.
In some, you may have giving too much and taking less, and then taken too much and just felt like you didn't give enough. The equilibrium in your relationship was uneven so now the only thing that was left was breaking up. The cause of a broken heart, tears on your pillow, pain in your body and so on. We could go on for hours to list all the things that we feel when someone decides they don't want to be with us. You and only you have time on your side, mostly of when you decide to get out bed and get yourself together to begin the process of moving on. It sounds scary to think you could move on with your life without the one you were spending so much time with. In reality, you always could you just didn't want to. Now you're forced to.
As you begin to do all things you did before, you at one time thought that coffee would never taste the same, movies wouldn't be as funny, your bed would never be warm. And as the days pass by, you change your reasons of why you drank coffee and now it tastes better. You never liked going to the movies before so now it doesn't matter if it will ever be funny or not. And your bed heated right up when you realized the heater was off.
Start kissing those chances since they are the ones that will help you decide in all good things. Selectively sleep with risk and understand that without the risk there is no chance.
In some, you may have giving too much and taking less, and then taken too much and just felt like you didn't give enough. The equilibrium in your relationship was uneven so now the only thing that was left was breaking up. The cause of a broken heart, tears on your pillow, pain in your body and so on. We could go on for hours to list all the things that we feel when someone decides they don't want to be with us. You and only you have time on your side, mostly of when you decide to get out bed and get yourself together to begin the process of moving on. It sounds scary to think you could move on with your life without the one you were spending so much time with. In reality, you always could you just didn't want to. Now you're forced to.
As you begin to do all things you did before, you at one time thought that coffee would never taste the same, movies wouldn't be as funny, your bed would never be warm. And as the days pass by, you change your reasons of why you drank coffee and now it tastes better. You never liked going to the movies before so now it doesn't matter if it will ever be funny or not. And your bed heated right up when you realized the heater was off.
Start kissing those chances since they are the ones that will help you decide in all good things. Selectively sleep with risk and understand that without the risk there is no chance.
Wednesday, December 23, 2009
According to My Man Friends
When guys and girls start to date and the texts start to become more a day, you have to wait a while before texting her back so she thinks she isn’t the only thing on your mind. WHY THE FUCK WOULD SHE THINK THIS? When a guy is on his way to pick you up, he really doesn’t care what you’re wearing. FUCKING LIE! Men only are interested in women who have soft voices and long hair; big boobs are always a bonus. SO IF A WOMEN HAS MEDIUM SIZE BOOBS OR EVEN SMALL ONES, WHAT IS THAT? IS THAT LIKE THE BOTTOM OF THE BARREL KIND OF PICK? Men feel more at ease when they are around their friends and you’re tag-in-along. FUCK THIS! FYI, AS EASY IT IS FOR YOU TO FEEL THAT WAY; IT’S JUST AS EASY FOR US TO LEAVE!! Men only reach out to you via text, web, and call when they are bored and have nothing else to do. So they reach out to you because they know you will respond immediately. THIS IS BULLSHIT AND I REFUSE TO BELIEVE THIS. Men do not want you talking about them to your friends because when you meet them they think you two may be boyfriend and girlfriend, and men do not like titles. FIRST OFF, EITHER DO WE! UNLESS BOTH PARTIES HAVE AGREED TO BECOME EXCLUSIVE, FUCK THE TITLES! FUCK THE TITLES AND THE FUCKING WORLD THEY CRAWLED OUT OF. All men like fake boobs, just not when their women has them. WTF? HAVE YOU HEARD OF EQUAL OPPORTUNITY? I PERSONALLY DO NOT OWN FAKE BOOBS BUT THAT IS JUST MY PERSONAL OPINION. Please don’t ask a man if your ass looks fat in those jeans, we don’t give a monkey’s ass. TELL ME THE FUCKING TRUTH! Men want to send you flowers, only on the days we have to like Valentines Day and your birthday. FUCK FLOWERS AND BRING ME DARK CHOCOLATE AND SOME RUM! Star gazing to women is 100% different to a man. To women it is really star gazing; to a man it’s getting laid on the hood of his car. WAIT, I HAVE NO REBUTTLE TO THAT ONE.
What normal sophisticated man actually feels this way?
What normal sophisticated man actually feels this way?
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