I love to talk about simplicity. I enjoy helping people understand the simple things in their lives that they didn't know they had any meaning. There is a time and place for over the top anything. It's customary to put good thoughts and lots of planning for over the top anything. But that's just my point... No one puts any thought about simple things that you can do for your guy or gal in between those over the top events, presents or whatever.
People hear, New Years, birthday, Christmas, anniversary and so on; so people think 'oh I need to get or do something big'. You will be surprised how you can make a big occasion into something simple and get even more appreciation out of it. How do I know? I'm all about the simple things. I love being spoiled too, don't get me wrong. But when someone goes all out for me, the appreciation and excitement level is incredible because It's not something I get everyday.
I love and enjoy anything romantic no matter the time of day. And I know every girl out there does too. Of course we want something special done for our birthday. Who doesn't? The biggest thing for me is having some type of dessert to blow a candle out and make a wish. Sometimes all we want is a cake, a candle, maybe in a park at night picnic style; just you and me. Or in the middle of the living room floor, and the only light is the candles surrounding us. I love my friends and I always enjoy spending my birthdays with them, but sometimes the bonding time between you and your guy or girl can be the strongest on a special occasion. The intensity of excitement is higher and it really feels good when the crowd is smaller.
If you know there is a big event tonight for you and your girl or guy, leave little notes through out the house that you know they will find to anticipate the evening. If you know she is going to try on 4 different pairs of shoes, leave sticky notes and in them and say something sexy/sweet. If you know your man is going to shave for the event, leave him a card in the area he has all his gadgets. It's flirting, it's cute and it puts you in a good mood. I know women really appreciate those small gestures because it makes us feel wanted, and reminds us that we are on your mind. Men, they soak it up.
Spoil me and I jump around like a little school girl that just found out she got a life time supply of Lisa Frank stuff. Do me a simple deed and I won't stop talking about it for a long time. Both sweet, different reactions, same meaning in my heart.
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