I know these days there are some people out there that want to impress their date, more so when it is the first one. We want to do something extravagant, we want to wow them and make them feel that they were worth the effort. Then you're broke and now you don't have cash for the second date =(
This brings me to thinking that why wouldn't you do something that you enjoy (saying you are the one that pursued the other person) and show them one of the many hobbies you have. It can show that person what your about when they are in your comfort zone. Seems like these days the dinner date is the most popular. But after that your tired and feel like sleeping because you two are in a food coma.
I know for sure that simple is better. Simple helps build you to extravagant. And when I say extravagant, I mean something that you know he/she will appreciate. Coffee shop dates for my me are by far the best. Sitting around and people watching is relaxing! Simple to some people may be a fancy fuck dinner, a limo and show. To each its own!
Money should never be an issue or the solution to a relationship. You have to picture your self with that person and think, would I be satisfied with watching a movie at home with this person? Would you still feel excited? To only need each other as a foundation is the key to a healthy start.
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